This is not looking me cool that i speak about struggle and success before getting success,but i am doing this.Because steemit is giving me more than final success.I joined steemit one and half month before and set my two small goals "improve English and improve writing skills and knowledge..I am trying my best to achieve these goals.Whole day i have a lot of work to do at home.cooking ,cleaning and most important helping kids in study.We change our rented home few months before.and in this area i try my best but no maid or helper is available.. .This hectic routine disturbed my social life i have not enough time for work and to communicate with others.Now a days my husband is too busy in settling down his new business of solar system and electronics.He lost his job in the end of last year and decided to start a business.

How i introduced with steemit and changes in my life

Steemit

I am telling you the Situation in which i introduced with steemit .My sister @biyanoor introduced steemit to me.She told me about @dobartim and i followed him on Steemit .Dobartim contest 'How steemit changed your life"successful people and their stories motivates me and giving me strength to take this life challenge and not to surrender.Still steemit not helped me in financial way but i find it helpful in other ways.After a long working day if i spend some time on it reading people blogs and stories gives me relaxation.I am feeling it increases knowledge and building strong personality .I am less talkative and lack of social activities was making my life lonely and causing anxiety .
I think social life and connect with other people is fundamental human need.In this gloomy situation when i was really upset i find steemiit supportive.Magically i released my stress.It changed my daily life routine .I am feeling positive and doing my routine work in better way.I am learning discipline from steemit and managing my work in time just to get some time for work on it.I find here everything i like poetry,art,nature photography,food of different countries,culture and travel stories,science and information.I also came to know whats going on in world.I hope getting social and understanding people will help to open many personal and career related options.
My communication skills are getting better.I am learning these skills day by day and its upgrading my self-esteem too.While busy in house chores its hard to work daily on steemit, and when i manage my work with it and upload a post i wish for good response.but i did not get it. Some times this thing disturbed me but i believe in' slow and steady wins the race' and' never give up'.Parenting is a tough and stressful job.Parents every day faced new challenge.This is difficult for me to do a job and to go outside for work,I have four kids and little one is one year old only.I think steemit is the best place for a house wife to work.Here we have no stress of time . We can work when we have time, no matter its day or night.We can choose our comfortable hours for work.We can choose the topics of our own interest. I start steemit without any plan , now i am planning to use this in a better way.

The light of hope ,steemitschool

Struggle gives us strength and hope.Finally I joined @dobartim steemit school .It is motivating me to work with patience.It looks i find a right platform where i can learn how to use steemit as a profitable social network .How can i get upvotes and how comments are valuable .I think Steemitschool is a hope of light in dark night.Relating with people and working in a large group will develop communication skills.That is a key to success here.I am grateful to @dobartim for starting this wonderful school for beginners.School mission is valuable ,to educate everybody '' how to work on steemit and make it profitable''. @dobartim is delivering wonderful and energizing lectures on discord.Any one can join steemitschool on discord channel. He is a humble man and appreciate everyone.

"Work together and win together"

Struggling for better and successful life and problems in our life

For those who are fighting with hard days of life and wants to struggle.Start is the hard part but it becomes hardest when we feels our motivation is ending.We try our best but it looks nothing good is happening.At this point of life it looks that we stuck in difficult situation.We should remember without struggle progress is not possible.Think about the starting point ,when you was super motivated and want to do everything , think about reasons behind your start and look inside of you ,you do not want to give up.Just imagine what your success means to you.I read the stories of successful people and find how they suffered before winning.If you look at habits of successful people you find them similar.

Always remember that striving and struggle precede success, even in the dictionary.(Sara Ban Quote)

Be hopeful and struggle with faith.Success definition is different in views of different persons.Because people have different goals in their life.some people trying to earn money to meet their life basic needs. Earning a lot of money is not a sign that you are successful.The path of success begins by asking yourself ,What makes me happy?.And i am satisfied and feeling pleasure being a part of steemit.

Bruce Lee said, “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself; do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”

My steemit age and story is short but steemit making me strong.My behavior towards life is changing.I am determined to be a strong women and taking all challenges of life.I start reading books and planning to read a lot more.I was in stress and not finding a way out from this situation.Thanks for steemit for making me relax.Making my life goals,and putting my life on a better way.Its pushing me to get more knowledge.I find here entertainment , fun and enjoyment too.Here i have choice of work,choice of time,choice of topics.

Here i want to say another thing about steemit, i am feeling in this hectic life where everybody is busy on electronic and social media ,steemit is playing a good role. Steemit is making book readers , writers, photographers and many more.
Here is the link of @dobartim post
https://steemit.com/steemitultimatechallenge/@dobartim/2c1grk-steemit-ultimate-challenge-8-weeks-prize-fund-2000-sbd-week-7-registration-is-in-progress-last-week
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