History of parents with reflection for their children
The experience of being parents.
Being a parent is one of the greatest satisfaction you can have. Although some become parents in an unplanned way, taking responsibility for the arrival of a child is what counts most in this process of family formation.
Many are reluctant to go through this experience, but, in the normal course of life, forming a family and dedicating to giving a quality of life as a general rule is the duty of each person.
THE FAMILY
A life-changing experience.
Let's be honest, most of us when we have not sown the foundations of a family and we are alone, without responsibilities, we do not take the meaning of life seriously, we occupy our time in what seems best to us and we do much longer in time fixed without taking into account the probabilities of the future.
Until the commitment with another person arrives, in one way or another life unites two people so that together they establish a relationship that will be the origin of a family, during the time of sharing they always think that they are not prepared to assume the responsibility of a family, and this is true, no one is prepared, there is no manual on how a family works or how to be parents, in this sense what counts is the responsibility and willingness to adapt to the changes that life necessarily presents, it is what will help to face in a positive way the situations that arise.
When we confirm that we will be parents, the surprise and uncertainty loom over some, at first it can be a traumatic experience, the questions always arise in the economic aspect, personal, we assume that future plans will not materialize, but this is only part of the process, although always the new situation supposes at the beginning resistance on the part of both families of the involved ones, in the end, they end up offering their support and contributing in the care and future of the son of the couple that now becomes a more familiar one.
The arrival of a child changes the life completely, the order of the priorities changes completely, and all the things that are made from this moment, are made in the function and thinking about the children.
THE ARRIVAL OF THE BABY
The first time is the hardest.
At the beginning, when the child is newborn, you will feel a little overwhelmed, in the case of men, you have a new life that depends on you, and your wife also depends completely on you, because in the first months of life of the baby, the father is the one who assumes 100% of the family burden, the mother if she worked, will not be able to work in this period, and most of the economic burden will fall on you as a father, for this important reason, you must be prepared for this, keep the positive attitude, "each beginning is difficult", but you must face it.
My newborn baby
Over time, parents adapt to the family routine, when children of a certain age can go to daycare or kindergarten so that parents can perform their professional work more freely.
Little by little, opportunities will appear on the road that will make things easier for parents and will represent a good for the children, this always comes with the calm of the parents.
Recommendations for parents
As mentioned above, there is no manual that indicates how to be a parent, it is basically one of those things that you learn from trial and error, you can take into account the mistakes made by the parents of one of the couples, that is, the grandparents of the child, to avoid following patterns and making the same mistakes, is not about judging, but about improving the model of parenting.
Although early times are difficult, children will not always be small, they will grow up and time will become more independent, so you must have patience and always use common sense to guide children to the right path. , providing stability within the family group and providing security is the main task of both members of the couple.
For them it's worth it and more
The formation of a family is a commitment to live, it is not an easy way to travel, but it is very satisfactory, we must bear in mind that everything in this life is not always easy and if it is not easy, it is always these cases I'm sorry for the effort.
HISTORY
LOYALTY
UNDERSTANDING
DELIVERY
SACRIFICE AND MORE ...
WE LEARN IT AT HOME, WITH TRUE FAMILY SENSE.
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Becoming a parent and starting a family is one of the most amazing experiences you can have as a person. The years are wonderful, stressful, fun, challenging and absolutely treasured all at the same time.
Yes, friend @broncofan99, we need a unique patience, because all that you describe at the same time is not easy but love covers everything and only with them smiling us fill us with strength and joy that we continue to love them and make me treasure more the sense of family.
Parenting is amazing. Babysitting is challenging and interesting at the same time. The last two weeks has been wonderful babysitting. I'm already missing the 3 months and 3 days old baby because I have to leave for a while.
Waoo, friend, these 3 years that I have lived with my daughter Ambar, have been very challenging for me, she was my debut as a mom, and nobody teaches us how to do better every night or every day that passes, I can only tell you that it is the most beautiful experience that a human being can have, do not lose a moment with your baby, those moments will not come back, thanks for reading.
Parenting requires lot of responsibility, it is really tough task!
Dear friend, it is a serious challenge, not only economic maintenance is enough, we must also minister values of love that in the future will lead them to become good adults for their family and society. Thanks for your comment