LOL. No hole here man. I think this is just a result of the limitation of communicating via written comments. I bet if we were face to face, we would have hashed this out in 30 seconds, got on the same page and would have moved on to joking about each other's screen names.

You haven't marred your name. You are a strong advocate for respect and inclusion. If you see something that isn't right, you should absolutely say something. I am just a strong proponent of communicating directly with the person first. With the written word, it is so easy to misunderstand someone's true intention. I think so much drama on this platform could be avoided by conversations like the one you and I are having. We started far apart and took the time to communicate directly with each other. Poof! No drama.