its 1.40 am here in Nigeria and i have got tears in my eyes. You know when i started reading your reply to other people i just kept on thinking about how really wonderful it was that you took your time to go through everything and analysed them so beautifully.... This was until i got to your reply to my post and i couldnt help shedding a few tears,,,, how you got my message so perfectly and your response to it.... presently i am having one of the issues i usually have with my parents about me doing more and its like you just spoke their mind and the minds of people that i come in contact with but then you said it in a different light.....you have given me hope that i could do more without necessarily being perfect... that i could push out of my comfort zones and still be me.....i see things like this and most sincerely i am encouraged not to give up... certainly, you have no idea what this simple post has done to me this morning.....but i am grateful beyond words that people like you still exist....And yes definitely i will need more outlet though i am still not fully certain what you mean...lool... Thank you so much Terry, you have been a great blessing and a great friend too....