I really like the point you made, I have learned the hard way as well, that if I am doing something that is causing myself just an unbearable amount of grief I have to walk away. It happened recently with my job, I could no longer take it. No matter how much I tried to let it go, I could no longer deal with that job. I do believe in the debate, to talk out problems and work together to solve them! I do not need the approval of whales on this site to make it here, I say that not to be combative towards them, but it seems that is what allot of people want here. I will enjoy myself doing this no matter what, I enjoy sharing and expressing myself. Thank you for your reply.