I think as long as you keep posting, even if not regularly, you're a good Steemian. Plus you can identify some good people, that means you have made some friends on this platform, which is awesome. Some people might gain more financial success and post regularly here but they might not care at all about other people.

As for delegation, you already have some good people on your list, so I would nominate one of them @veryspider because she keeps winning the comment contest in c-squared weekly. That means she gives the most support in terms of comments and upvotes to other people, and these kind of people are the major bloodline in a community.

Other than that, have fun and I am looking forward to your third year post anniversary :).

Edit: Here's this week stats from the comment contest. As you can see, spider just beat everybody else with a high margin.