I know exactly what you mean. I have had a fair amount of experience with this sort of thing. It is tough cutting out the deadwood holding you back especially when children are involved. I see the same thing in the school playground, just a load of moaning, complaining and negativity. That is 'normos' for you. Being self employed puts you on a different planet to most 9 to 5 workers. There is just no spark in their eyes.
It amazes me how most people just have nothing going on, no projects or side businesses or aspirations. That is up to them.
Good stuff @hopehuggs Onwards and Upwards