Long Distance Relationships:- Making it WorksteemCreated with Sketch.

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We all have that one person in our life whose presence you always sort to be in, this may be our girlfriend, fiancee or wife. Most at time these are people we are looking to start a relationship with, an example can be online dating. Life, they say is not fair as the everyday struggle of it would present the need for your partner to locate or be located in a different part of country or world. 

 Many relationship fail because of the distance separating those involve in it.

A few pointers on making such relationship work

01)  Make it a precedence of communicating frequently

Gone are those days when distant communicate could only be done by letters, nowadays many media and various channels of communication can fully be utilize to pass information. Text messaging, chatting application to video calls are now possible so real-time dialogue can always be initiated. 

02)  Talk more on new to shared experience

Experience shared together connect people more, this is why company sent their employees on work retreat and outings. In so doing, these people with various perception to background have something in common to make refers to, so suggest books and movies that both of you can read and watch respectively. Talk on subjects that feel tough or weren't appropriate in the instance of this experience. This kills awkwardness whenever you run out of things talk about. 

03)  Don't press too much

 The communication shouldn't be such that it feels like there is no breather between, giving yourself time such that one doesn't feels he or she is being monitored. The space between the next talk shouldn't be to much that it becomes a silent treatment.

04)  Be honest and a great listener

In listening, you have help solve. Knowing when your partner in having a difficult challenge can help you resolve their worries. With conversations occurring frequently between two people, you tend to know or pick up on the emotion involve in each pitch the person makes or types. When you picture yourself in their perspective, you at least know how to approach such problems.

P.S:- These pointers can also be use as a guide to nurse the relationship for followers and those you are followings on steemit

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Good going, brother!

I've never been in a long distance relationship, but I'll keep this in mind. Thank you!

you should as most following in steemit is long distance :)

HAha you have a point!

I have a long distance relationship, She's in Georgia and I'm in Kentucky with 7 hours between us. This story is pretty much true, Thanks for posting!

Will keep at it

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