I'm facing some of the things you're writing about right now. I got flagged for the very first time today, for nonsense made up reasons! I thought it couldn't happen to me, cos I treated people with respect, I never flagged anyone, etc. Definitely something needs to be fixed.
About the love life, we have a saying here, "who wins in money loses in love, who wins in love loses in money". So no wonder when you stopped dealing with money, you won in love! :P
:) Hehe, yeah that saying is about the focus/priority. I choose to stop trying to change the world through Steemit posts and make money that way, and finally focus on my personal life which I had neglected for years... It paid off well for me to abandon Steemit for a while :) Thanks for the quote and the chats :) Remember, DFTT :D Steemit is a messed up place that can't incorporate real-world rules and self-governed actions for dealing with wrong behavior. We are made impotent to what the code allows us to do... uniting against wrong-doers doesn't happen often as most people are too concerned about losing their previous $$$ if they get involved.