Thanks.

Concerning your question, you see, I was really trying hard to say what I needed to say without sounding "religious". However, these things happen, I'm not an expert in such, I even pray I don't get a disappointing surprise too. However, the point I'm trying to make now has kind of been replied to with this your statement, "... For better for worse is easy to say..".

It may be easy to say, but one needs to take those vows seriously. It's a covenant and the God we serve doesn't break covenants. One who really follows Christ should hold on to that standard regardless of the eternal risk..

Besides, true love should actually surpass that. Yes, seems impossible and impracticable, but one who has come to KNOW God will know that such should not determine the love

Selah