#STEEMGIGS: (life) — Reason You Should Not Live A Fake Life II

Yeah, welcome onboard. Recently, I talked about the reason why people are leading a fake life. If you missed the first part get it here for more understanding. This time around @hempress I will like to sail towards the motive of many who are living and suffering this kind of life and the consequences of their attitude.

Motive of irresponsibility

For an irresponsible person, @tatjanastan the motive of his negative attitude is that mostly he feels that burdens have been much for him to handle and paying attention to, or taking care of personal matters is much more essential than for the others'. He doesn't want others to benefit a dime from his sweat. He often not partake in anything that he would not gain directly from. He is characterized by individualism and selfishness. Once, it is being considered that a certain thing is only beneficial to others and he cannot benefit from it, he would consider it a taboo and he would not contribute his quota to the success of such a matter. As a result, he will be running away from his own duty. Let cite an example to get the point, your friend left his notebook in your room, but you feel it too big or offensive to take it to his residence since it has nothing to benefit you. A man that sees it offensive to provide for his wife or family but he feels it right to spend all his earning on himself is also a good example. 

Consequences

The consequence of this is that you will be deserted and no one will feel helping you whenever in need even when one is dying for an assistance. Since people don't gain anything from you whenever they are in need, they too will never feel it obligatory to assist someone like you with no benefit. You always give an excuse for not being helpful whereas, you are in right place to assist; they will not believe you again whenever you are a downside of life. They would say, that is your habit no time you are in better position to help. It is a karmic law that if you don't sow you cannot reap. What goes around comes around.

The motives of a Liar

A liar always tries to pacify other's on a certain issue by covering himself up with untrue words which interpret to be a deception whenever the curtain is drawn. He believes the third party does not know that he is lying of which he may know but just might wish to be watching you see how long the liar can handle it succeed. He thinks is smarter than others so, he can manipulate things to the detriment of others. At times, the person involved may not detect your stand but you know you are lying. Thus, a popular saying of Yoruba says that "two persons cannot lose to a lie, if the second person involved did not know definitely, the first person does." Be frank, let people know your stand you don't need to be a liar, that cannot help for long. Let people appreciate what you stand for by being truthful to them that is enough to enjoy best of your life.

Consequences

The consequence of being a liar are many but to mention few, one loses his prestige, and people would lose trust in him, and whenever he has a genuine info for people they will see it fallacy. Another point to make is that one will later be deserted as irresponsible one and a lie once covered will later be revealed. Also, a liar needs one thousand lies to cover a single lie committed before. Reasonably, a hundred thousand lies needed for the one thousand back up. So the life of a liar is miserable if such an attitude not desisted.

The motive for Breaking Promise

Lack of sincerity is the root of unfulfilled promise. Perhaps, the promise may be made out of incapability, out of influence, out of inconvenience, or out of imposing. As a result, such a promise fails. The reason why this category followed the above category is the fact that one cannot fall into this category without being passed through the above category. And the promise breaker believed that that promise, vow or pledge is only meant for the tongue.

Consequence

The exact result of the person that falls under the second category is same to the person of this category. Hardly, they maintain their repute. 

Motive Behind Empty Barrel

The term is coined to denote the character of the victim. Being an empty barrel means having nothing and proclaiming 'possession of all'. And the motive behind is to associate oneself with a class of repute and to claim the superiority above others while in reality, is better for those who he claimed he surpassed. Life matters at times funny, how can one be calling himself what he worth not? Only people of less dream think that way.

Consequence

An empty barrel person will lose a lot for the fact that many will be looking at him as a person of high repute and many things that may be beneficial to him will be considered ridiculous to his status. They will be thinking of him of living a comfortable life of his own and will be considered upper above others as a result, they will not call his attention to the small opportunity that may benefit him.

Motive Behind Enemy of Progress

People of this type think that the blessing of others may block theirs. Some do this for their selfishness. They always want to be on top while others should remain their slaves. For this purpose, they deny the fortune of others to the extent that they feel blackmailing anyone around them that is more resourceful than them. Some love in disguise of his bad intention showing love and care to people in public and hide his bad intent so that people will not detect his true color. This type of people is very common. They want all success to be theirs and not concern whether others around them succeed or not. 

Consequence

They will not have a rest of mind because they feel fighting a war in their mind every day which can fast-track their death. Also, since they don't want others to grow around them, they will be full of a burden because of others responsibility. A rich in a poor family is also poor. The definition of success does not imply the success of one person but the success of one that brings out success for many others. Leadership is not by creating more followers but by creating more followers John Adair opined.

Solution 

the cessation of all these epidemic is as follows

Be responsible

Be honest 

Keep and fulfill all promises

Protect your integrity and;

Be the lover of development.

The above points will be discussed in the later post.

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