RE: My Steemfest3 Stories: Some of my favourite new friends - The Little Stokes
I'm so very glad we got to hang out. :)
As a parent, I'm sure you know how encouraging it is to hear others tell you they enjoy the little humans you helped make. It's encouraging because we as parents see all the not-so-fun times as well. Raising children is really, really hard. Their little under-developed prefrontal cortices and lack of mirror neurons create drama that stresses us out, frustrates us, and leaves us asking, "Really? Did you really just do that?"
I tell people often how raising kids is one of the hardest and most amazing thing you'll ever do. Simple pleasures like having a phone call or going to the restroom without being interrupted seem like vague, distant memories. At times, it seems a few minutes can't go by without one kid yelling at the other one. We get so easily caught up in our insecurities, trying to control behavior and guide them towards a good life. At times it can be overwhelming.
And at other times, it can be so deeply rewarding and fulfilling. Thank you for loving on our kids, joking with them, and making them feel welcome in this Steem community. I also respect and appreciate you not giving their names, but based on conversation we've had with them (and maybe my own biases about transparency), we're comfortable with their names being online. Devon is our oldest son, followed by Aria and Monet.
I'm so glad they encouraged you as well as you were away from your own kids.
Thanks for sharing these pictures and your story. It's something I will remind myself of often, especially when things are challenging. :)
Wow Luke, thank you for taking the time to write all of this up. It was so great to hang out with you Stokes. Honestly, I had so much respect for what you were all doing. Not easy travelling around with your whole family, whilst having so many work commitments, but so great for them to be able to be there with you and watch you kick ass and do your thing.
Your kids are incredibly awesome, honestly. I can't wait for them to meet mine :) These kids will run the world one day, and letting them be out there in the world, and meet all the amazing people they can meet, especially at places like Steemfest, I know will teach them so so much. I'm glad my first Steemfest experience was a child free arrangement, but thanks to your kids, and watching how they were at SF3, I definitely can't wait to bring mine next time for them to experience it as well.
I somehow felt led to do this post earlier, and I'm really glad I did. Even if all it does is remind you and Corinne of the awesome parents that you are :) Take care all of you and see you again soon!!!
I'm not the only one who fell in love with your kids, Luke. They're pretty amazing, but then again, they have amazing parents.
Redrica, it was fabulous to spend time with you. Yay for connecting with people who inspire us!