I knew the story of your lady boss having cancer. It is a sacrifice for a mother to say: I step back to save my child the hurt of ever knowing me. This is true love and even if she "survived" the breast cancer she will always feel the sword of Domacles above her head. I know you do not only give the daughter but also the mother and the entire huge family more care than any other person would do. You took a very heavy task on your shoulders and it's good to hear the child you accepted as your own returns your care and love with love and shares with you.