STEEMCHURCH- Love/Hate Relationships
Unless and until you access the consciousness frequency of presence, all relationships particularly intimate relationships are deeply flawed and almost ultimately disfunctional.
Relationships may appear or be perfect and blossoming for a while, for instance when you are in love, in the beginning it's all rosy and you feel like it should all last forever, slowly and surely issues start to creep in. And take note this even happen in normal relationships between friends. I'll always say if you've not had series of misunderstandings and a possible reason to hate a friend then the friendship ain't genuine because we all have different attribute and this makes us susceptible to offending one another.
As I stated earlier relationships seems perfect at the begining then different things like arguments, conflicts, dissatisfaction, emotional and in extreme cases physical violence. When these things occur at increasing frequency then things are bound to get sour.
There is a thin line between love and hate. A strong feeling of love can quickly switch into a strong feeling of hate/distaste. Even relationship between family members can get sour if conflicts are not properly resolved.
3 Ways To Make A Relationship Blossom
Increased/better Communication: this should be probably the most important factor in any relationship. When there is no communication you'll have different ideas on your mind concerning the other party and if nobody voices out such ideas if bad will stick and you will begin to see the person in that manner. Communucation gives room for individual party in any relationship to voice his/her opinion.
Having a forgiving spirit: before any conflict can be truly resolved each party needs to be willing to forgive irrespective of who was right or wrong. If the parties are not willing to forgive then nothing can be done to harness the relationship.
Always seek for peace and tender apologies even when you feel you are right
We parishioners of the steemchurch are in a relationship in the sense that we are all part of one body *@steemchurch". We should let the love affair die and we should always know that misunderstandings will arise but resolving it peacefully should be our aim not seeking to tear each other down.
Hey Stainedsheets!
We're glad we caught you on the tag. Been a while we read from you. Wonderful tips for a relationship you shared.
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I agree with you issues tend to come up in any relationship. The way we treat these issues determine if such friendships will continue. We have to ensure our words are well salted and avoid saying anything unchaste during such quarrels. Thanks for sharing.
wonderful tips buddy .. Good work
This is wonderful
In life, there is no man that can live in isolation, that is why we need relationships to grow.
understanding what relationship entails can really go a long way in making the relationship to work out.
We need to be committed, allow the flow of communication, forgive easily, love without expecting any return, sacrifice, love unconditional coupled with living in align with God's view about our relationship with each other.
There's no perfect relationship but we need understanding to keep going.
regards @maintain4real-eu
Thanks for sharing this with us, I agree with the three ways you said will work on any relationship, great post
These issues are true.... Nice one @stainedsheets
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Thanks for sharing. @SteemChurch definitely trusts in God.
thanks for sharing about a posts