Assertive discipline ... The art of education!

in #steemchurch6 years ago

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If we think that disciplining is synonymous with punishment ... we are totally wrong. Discipline is a value, it is associated with the ability to teach ... the child learns to lead an orderly life considering the rules of behavior of the society to which it belongs.

Nothing to do with living angry with our children ... is to discipline with love and mainly for a reason. Investigating in social networks how to discipline our children is an option, if we want to have an idea of ​​where to start ... but if we stop to reflect, our instinct or logic as parents gives us the answer. Here are some tips that can help:

. Firmness in the promises: Comply with what you promised your little one ... nothing more disappointing than your son considers him a liar, because he will stop believing in you and will lose trust and respect.

. Clear rules: and if possible, write them down (if your child knows how to read) ... a child of school age can participate in the elaboration of the rules, since he is directly responsible for complying with them and the consequences if disobey Keep in mind that there is room for your flexibility.

. Control of disobedience: if you are very angry, it is better to get away and then, when you are more calm, go back to face the situation. Remember to make these corrections only with your child ... never in public..

. Patience: disciplining is not an easy task ... seeing positive results takes time.

. Shared authority: between father and mother, with one voice ... nothing that one gives to the authority of the other and much less in front of the child. Reach agreements before authorizing or denying any application.

.Without threats: if you see a latent danger and want to avoid it, explain the consequences of what may happen. If he disobeys, it will be a lesson in life.

.Pataletas? zero attention you will see that by not giving importance to your tantrums, you will stop trying to manipulate.

Until a next opportunity!

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