ARGUING TOO MUCH IS A VERY BAD HABIT

The habit of arguing always takes its toll on any relationship where it is practised. It brings disgrace in public. It creates wound and spend already existing injuries in the relationship. Constant arguing can be as a result of negative lifestyle one or both of the couples has developed in the past. It could be as a result of hurt being nursed, a desire to dominate and control things. It comes most of the time when a couple has opposing views on an issue. It is dangerous to any and every relationship because it widens the gap in communication and puts a strain on the relationship. Many marriages have ended because if constant argument and quarrelling.

The solution to this is to fight and kill selfishness in your life. In your discussion and conversation, put your partner and your marriage first before self. Be willing to learn new things - be teachable. Accept you do not know it all. Strive to see with your partner's eyes rather than yours all the time. Strive not to raise your voice and always talk in a soft answer turn away wrath. Walk in the spirit and not in the flesh.

GOD BLESS YOU