We almost lost the tradition that goes back far longer then I can remember. Xmas dinner with my Mom's side of the Family is a big deal and family comes from not only around the country, but one even from Sweden. We are talking 4 generations and no less then 40 people at one house. Up until a couple years ago my Grandparents hosted it, but they had to go into a nursing home so someone had to step up. My Uncle was willing and able to fit that many people in his home for a meal so it continues.

I can remember spending almost all day with my cousins when I was a kid and now my kids do the same. My oldest actually made "Crazy Cousin Crew" tshirts to give out. They are just silly together and no matter how long it's been since they see each other they pick up just like old friends...it's great.

We eat, we play cards and argue about who won last year, and catch up on everyone's lives. There are some gifts, but not much as that isn't what it's about. The whole night is about spending time together...not who got what and I love that.

You can keep all the stupid gifts..I need nothing that money can buy. But spending time with the family is all that really matters.