You Don't Have To Try So Hard

in #steem-music7 years ago (edited)

Videographer by Cathering Ong

Try by Colbie Cailat, is one of the meaningful songs that I came across among the pop hits. Its hard to find songs with meaningful lyrics nowadays haha . Above video is an open mic performance I did with my guitarist friend, Scott years back.

This is a song telling us to not try so hard to change ourselves to fit in to the society. In this song, its specifically about external appearances.

I've came across people who blindly follow the fashion trend or succumbed by peer pressure, till they lose themselves throughout the process.

Sometimes, girls tend to change their external appearances to impress & to be likeable to everyone. Well its not totally wrong about that, but while they are busy dealing with their external world which in return hoping everyone to like them, they may forgot to ask their internal self....

"Do I like the me now?"
How often do we ask ourselves this? What is the point when I am likeable to everyone, but not to myself? We can say yes to every fashion trend, but if its not something we like or comfortable with, then the "change" loses it main purpose.

This is a quote from Bill Johnson that blew me away until today.


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Never change for someone else.
Change for yourself.
Change because you know you're better. :)

Try by Colbie Cailat Lyrics

[Verse 1]
Put your make-up on Get your nails done Curl your hair
Run the extra mile Keep it slim So they like you, do they like you?
Get your sexy on Don't be shy, girl Take it off
This is what you want, to belong, so they like you, Do you like you?

[Chorus]
You don't have to try so hard You don't have to, give it all away
You just have to get up, get up, get up, get up
You don't have to change a single thing
You don't have to try, try, try, try X3
You don't have to try Yooou don't have to try (Oooh Oooh~)

[VERSE 2]
Get your shopping on, at the mall, max your credit cards
You don't have to choose, buy it all, so they like you Do they like you?
Wait a second, Why, should you care, what they think of you
When you're all alone, by yourself, do you like you? Do you like you? [Chorus]

[VERSE 3]
Take your make-up off Let your hair down Take a breath
Look into the mirror at yourself Don't you like you?
Cause I like you

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I LOVE this! I already loved this song, and your voice completely did it justice and then some! I'm bummed the video faded before the crowd reacted - I'm betting you got a ton of applause considered 1) you NAILED it! and 2) the crowd was noisy & distracted in the beginning, but after a verse or two, you could tell you had their attention! Oh, and nice choice to add the occasional onscreen lyric to video, emphasising the message. Brava, @michelleloh168!

Thanks for your generous compliments @traciyork! This was a video made by my talented videographer friend. Haha and yes I'm glad I manage to pull it through the noisy crowd. Glat that you enjoyed the song too! Thanks for dropping by Traci! :)

My favorite song and you sang it so well!
It's so meaningful. I especially like this:
"You don't have to try so hard You don't have to, give it all away"

You just have to show the real you in front of the people. Upvoted and followed you :) Looking forward to more singing from you!

Aww thanks @smile4ever! Yeah i love that line too, we don't have to try so hard and give it all away~ Sometimes we're so busy trying to be everyone else, but forgot to be ourselves. Hehe.

Upvoted and followed you yesterday too. Am still waiting for your part 5! haha its like watching a drama!

whoa.. haha. thanks for following. Part 5 will be out soon, hehe

We are fully behind your musical endeavour michelle...keep singing

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Thanks for your support as always @perennial! :)

Keep on singing and keep on steeming 🚀

Haha wookay! :D

I always love your singing :)

YAYYYY! Another cover! Loving it! Keep it coming, @michelleloh168! :)

YAYYYY! Hahaha thanks @heartscally! 💕

VERY VERY NICE! Powerful voice! Listening to you singing and reading your post and the lyrics definitely makes it even more meaningful.

Thanks @zord189! This is indeed a very powerful and meaningful song. Hope this blesses anyone who's reading or listening to this too. :)

I like this song as well. the lyrics are well written. I believe the MTV was clips of girls just taking off their make up and even wigs! powerful message :)

@calebleejl Yes yes! I like how they story the MV too! Haha didn't know so many people know this song. :D

Great performance!

Ah thanks for dropping by @howtostartablog! Hope you enjoy the song :)