Just found this page and it's cool that you have debates. Not participating but I feel they are equal roles where they provide equal input. Make up each others strengths and weaknesses. Given you could've grown up in an orphanage and dont need parents for say but in my opinion having both play an equal important role. But it would be cool to see someone say why a father would be more important and then a woman choose a father and a man explain the mothers side. That seems like it would be interesting because I've only read women explain the mothers side which they have some good points. This seems like a cool and interesting page. Keep up the debates!