Jorge Bucay, Silvia Salinas "To love with open eyes"

Many people are looking for a couple, trying so to solve their problems. They naively assume that the love relationship will cure them of boredom, anguish, a lack of smear in life. They hope that the partner will fill the void of their life. What a gross fallacy! When we choose a couple for ourselves, having such hopes for it, after all, we can not avoid being hysterical towards the person who did not expect our expectation. And then? Then we look for the next partner, and for him another, then - again and again ... Or we decide to spend the rest of our lives alone, wishing for a cruel fate. To avoid this, we must deal with our own lives, not expecting that someone will do this for us.