What all men should know

*A PROPER HANDSHAKE, WHY IT IS IMPORTANT *

Does a handshake really do matter. An improper handshake can influence someone’s perception of you and a good a handshake is a sign of confidence and strength. It is important that every man and lady alike shake properly because Every chance you have to shake someone, be conscious of the fact that you are passing a message. This really goes a long way to determine whether the conversation Will turn out positive or negative. Most corporate firm managers say that when in a bid to employ job seekers,after their dress sense comes the issue of handshakes. An unfirm or timid handshake can tel that a person isn't confident.

HOW TO SHAKE PROPERLY

1.ALWAYS BE READY

When you come in contact with someone for the first time , endeavor to shake with the right hand .If your right hand is busy or there is an object on the right, pass it to the left. Don't i repeat, never shake with a sweaty hand. Ensure you wipe your hand clean as you approach the individual… always be ready

1. As a gentle man, be first to extend your hand
   If you are seated, it is polite to stand up and initiate a firm and confident handshake and also don't forget to smile. This shows you are friendly and confident
   

1. Shake firmly and correctly


Hold firmly but don't hold very tight. You can squeeze once.. If it's an official environment, a finger snap would be inappropriate. Pump once or twice and you can add a compliment or a greeting. Don't hold on to the person's hands for more than 3 seconds. It could make the person uncomfortable. And then continue with your conversation.

1. 2 TO 3 PUMPS IS FINE:

Always shake from the elbow, not from the wrist if you are talking to someone for the first time, two or three pumps is appreciate. If it's a close friend, u can increase the pump to maybe four or five.

5..hands out of the pocket.
Never put your hand in your pocket when shaking someone.. It gives a bad impression of you

3 bad handshakes you must avoid at all cost!!!!!

1 The dead fish handshake... From the name, I know you you have figured out the type of handshake. Persons who give this handshakes barely shakes the persons hands. They are weak and lifeless.. It dipicts depression and timidity.

2..Always avoid the bone crushing handshakes. This type of handshake squeezes the life out of you.. If you find yourself in this situation, say something like, wow, loosen up a bit.