Yes, you are really demarcating perfectly between those two parties.
I often found the term "seeker" within the spiritual community. And this fits perfectly with the points you list under "what Narcissists believe the journey is about". "Seeking" always insinuates lack. That we haven't got it yet. This again fits very well with your points "making plans and goals" and "Oneness includes duality". No matter how much we experience duality we have never left Oneness to begin with. There is no goal. Our Soul is infinite and eternal. How should there be a goal but that of creating with the ultimate Freedom we have in every moment?
And as always, the more we seek the less we embody it. How should we when our seeking implies that we are not there yet?
We are already 100% leveraging our creative power as the Light we are, our thoughts are always going to tell us the opposite, but even this was our choice once we entered this Universe of duality as we wholeheartedly requested long time ago!

Thank you! ☺