Yes, it really matters whether we excercising wishful thinking or thoughtful wishes.
Many people would love to experience exciting adventures. But this is wishful thinking as long as we haven't yet injected thoughts of our responsibility for that experience. Wishful thinking is like cherry-picking without seeing that we need to make Soul progress in order to truly take responsibility for that experience.
Yes, we have that power! :)
You identified it perfectly @alexaventuria it is the Soul progress that is needed first! As this progress evolves we gain more awareness and control of the power we possess. This is when the ✨magic✨ begins.