Then you need to investigate why those women are asking, Maybe they like you, if that's appropriate then make a move!! Like i said though bro - I've been through innumerable girls, and women.. and only found the right one after all the shit ones.. We have our times, but even best friends argue, never hold something against the other.. always try to analyze situations you don't understand, or ask advice.. But never be unfaithful, Both parties hold that resentment.. Just break up the relationship if you need to move on, it's your needs as a person.. You will always be you, she will always be herself.. There is not a literal connection, it's a feeling you get when your happy together.. it takes alot of work and time, but it's worth it man. I Hope your true love finds you one day.