Thought
The grass looks greener on the other side of the fence-but from both sides. The people who are living on the other side of the fence, they see your grass and it looks greener. It really looks greener, thicker, better. That is the illusion that distance creates. When you come close, then you start seeing that it is not so. But people keep each other at a distance. Even friends, even lovers keep one another at a distance: too much closeness will be dangerous, they may see your reality.