Can sextos revive desire?
"For some time now, my libido has been going down. I have been wondering how to fix it and I thought I would send my friend sextos but I'm not sure how to do it," asks Nathalie, 44.
Sextos are SMS or text messages with erotic content . They can be very exciting, because our brain is our most important sex organ. These messages make it possible to show that we are thinking of the other, to express what we feel for him erotically and to tell him that we want to trigger an erotic emotion in return. Sextos are a bit like foreplay using our brain as an erogenous zone. These are caresses of the mind ... intended to trigger the desire for sexual intercourse.
WHAT SEXTOS TRIGGER
The excitement of our brain caused by sexting leads to the excitement of our body: erection in men and lubrication in women. A sext, which is virtual, can therefore give rise to desire and physical excitement. So, yes, maybe this type of message can help you revive your desire if it is a little drowsy. But if you do suffer from a sexual blockage, don't count on it because, in this case, they won't be more effective than other foreplay .
SEXTOS: WHAT YOU CAN DO
Take precautions. To send or receive sexting, don't use your work phone, set up a password, don't let any incoming SMS appear directly on the screen (anyone could read it by leaning on your shoulder). Once written, before sending it, reread it carefully and double check the recipient, it would not be a question of addressing it to your uncle or your boss!
Above all, avoid sending photos. They could one day be found on the Internet or your partner could show them, or even use them one day against you. If you have total confidence in him and you still want to send him images, never photograph your face so as not to be easily identified.
SENDING A FIRST SEXT: INSTRUCTIONS FOR USE
Stay light and delicate. Not everyone likes crude words. However, it is about sharing desire and excitement, not shocking your partner and making him fit into his shell! What to say in a sexto? Here are a few examples you could take inspiration from.
Talk about what you've already done with him (if that's the case ...): "I liked it when ...".
Talk about what you would like to do with him, without necessarily going into too technical details: "I would very much like us ...".
Do not hesitate to express your desire: "I want to ..." . Because the best aphrodisiac is the desire of the other. Your prose is likely to be appreciated, because many men complain that their wives do not dare to express their fantasies clearly. Remotely and in writing, in a sext, it can be easier.
Continue this virtual love conversation for two. Depending on how he responds, you will quickly find your mode of exchange. Very romantic (but exciting anyway!) Or more concrete, by coded messages, humorous, even a little raw (or a lot?). There is no ideal model. The best sextos are the ones that stay a game because they are sent and received with shared pleasure. ?
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