Let’s talk about sex: horny but too lazy/tired

I know it’s important to have regular sex in a relationship, but I’m just tooo Tired.  I know this is not only my problem, but a problem more adults have. Raising kids and working just takes its toll. Now it wasn’t only me tonight, even my husband sat on the couch like a lemon. if he just would put the effort in..... No just kidding, it takes two to tango. But why does sex sometimes feel like another task on the list?  

the thing is, just like sports, sometimes it’s hard to just get up and get in the mood. But the only way to overcome it, is to just get in the mood orto plan a night together to go out have dinner and have sex. Yes planning it. We plan so many things in live, why not sex? and the answer that it takes the romance away is bullshit. When we used to date, and planned to go on a date it was also exciting, even though you knew you would have dinner together. Even planning an evening to have a bath or shower together works. And you might be tired, but sex releases endorfines and serotonin, which make you active and happy. 

Mans afterwards you sleep Devine! 

I wish you all all great sex this weekend, and plan a night out with your partner.