Mistaking sex for love

SEX

A man can travel for eight hours 'just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her.

Sex makes men act as if they are in love.

The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.

The foolish thing is this, majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is art of true love. Sex is not an art of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that

comes from sex dies in minutes.

It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from UK to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.

Sex drives men to do what seems like the

impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not in the same page even in dictionary.

People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life. You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for

fun and that is all. Students are now living

together like husbands and wives, and our

society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?

This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation building graduates.

Today, a 16 year old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man

that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.

The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well with in life? They have sold their souls out

to sex. They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is already exhausted when they come to their true senses?

Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:

For men; never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions, stay positive.

My sister's, the kind of friends u keep determines who u are. Be focused on your future and not what is trending. All that glitters is not gold, make your future bright and it starts today. By Comr Bashirlawal                Coordinator of Sule lamido mobilization Forum of Nigeria Kaduna state chapter and A member of PCRC  of the Nigerian Police Force  08036436010