hahaha! yes sir Vincent that has been my strategy at times, if I don't want to do something then sometimes I can put it off long enough that Mrs. J will take care of it because she hates to put things off, in fact she is the opposite of me as far as taking care of things, she will jump into things too fast, in my opinion and not plan enough or think about it enough but she's an amazing worker and doesn't put things off like I do.

But if you're not married then you have no choice but to take care of things so you are forced to do everything yourself but then you can be more independent too.