REASONS WHY SOME WOMEN FAKE ORGASM

princessola (40)in #science • 7 years ago

5 REASONS WHY SOME WOMEN FAKE
ORGASM.

This is a very sensitive topic and a typical
African woman when approached with the
matter comes with a lot of shyness and
embarrassment, that's just the honest truth.
When a woman is making love with her
husband, lover, boyfriend, friends with
benefits and she gets direct clitoral
stimulation and is able to reach her pleasure
spot which brings an overwhelming
sensation that makes a woman feels she is
in another planet hmmm! And she moves her
body to the rhythm as the pleasure gets
more intense and her sounds gets louder
followed by an apparent release then That
woman is definenatly not faking this
particular orgasm. But my article is talking
about the women who fake orgasm and the
reasons why they fake it.

HERE ARE THE REASONS why SOME
WOMEN FAKE orgasm.

TOO YOUNG AND INEXPERIENCED

This is one of the natural factors - when a
girl, woman, young and inexperienced. Been
inexperienced doesn't necessarily mean
these set of ladies is young just not exposed
enough to know much about sex and
lovemaking and the pleasure that goes with
it, as per the young being disvirgined then
having to meet a partner who would actually
teach the woman about lovemaking and that
she needs to learn more about her body and
not been ashamed to have the feelings of an
orgasm. Due to inexperience and being
young and being with a partner who is very
selfish this set of women will definitely fake
an organ must even out of curiosity. It takes
a caring and sensitive man to make them
realize their body can give them intense
pleasure with the right partner.

NOT IN THE MOOD FOR SEX:

Some set of women are not in the mood to
have sex, it depends on the situation its
either they are not happy with the man and
don't know how to tell him and don't want to
lose him so they endure. So most time when
their man comes to have sex with them they
do it with them and fake orgasm to make the
men feel like a don and the king.

TO HURRY UP AND GET DONE WITH IT:
Well some ladies when they are with their
steady partners that they are sexually active
with, they have gotten so used to their
partner so they just want to have sex most
times and get it done with very
monogamous. In the process of their sexual
intercourse their partner isn’t hitting their
center of gravity that would lead them to
having a mind blowing orgasm so they fake
it so they can move on to other things and
probably work load to cook, or even go
Clubbing they just want the sex over and
done with.
SEX NOT SATISFYING:

Some ladies who have been victims of
sexual abuse as a young girl and probably
from a dysfunctional family. Their mindset
towards sex is already messed up,
misguided views from their mum that sex is
only for procreation and even some ladies
make it hard for the men to discover their
center of gravity because of their frigidness
and moral values, they even feel dirty when
they find themselves moaning to sex at all,
they feel it's bad, they are getting wayward
so this makes them not enjoy sex at all.
These set of women who are equally married
to rigid men might not fully enjoy the
beautiful euphoria of intense lovemaking
with their partners and give them orgasm
because even the men might think their
faking their orgasm is bad and that their
wives will cheat on them so they are even
mindful faking orgasm. And those who have
worldly husband who has plenty mistresses
fake so as not be look like a wood in bed
whereas the man is the one not getting her
center of gravity cause he has other
girlfriends.

TO PLEASE THEIR PARTNERS NOT TO
HURT THEIR FEELINGS:

This is a major reason and most of these
women would really want to be able to give
their husband mind blowing sex, and keep
him satisfied. And when in the process of
having sex and their partner is not able to
get across to their direct center of gravity
through the sexual positions they are used
to, instead of telling the guy which would
destroy his self esteem. She would fake the
orgasm like mehnn she is really on fire with
mind blowing orgasm sensations whereas
she isn't feeling anything especially when
her man pays the bills. Instead of telling
their man what pleasures them how they
want it they feel their man might think they
are having an affair. Been open with your
partner is the key to discovering pleasure
spots in your body you never imagine
possible.

After all well said and done, faking orgasm
isn't good for us women because we are
denying ourselves the ultimate pleasure of
lovemaking. God created it with a
committed and loving partner. Sex is for
matured minds and you would take your
time to explore each other's body to have a
very satisfying sex life. Let your man
discover your center of gravity for you, don't
be shy and we are not in 1968 even then
women became aware of their sexuality they
were not completely primitive due to some
ancient movies I have watched, women who
inhibit themselves and hold on to grudges
can't fully enjoy sex. You have to let go,
having a mind blowing orgasm is part of
having a great sex life with your partner it's
very important for a relationship, so faking
an orgasm one day the culprit will get tired
and the truth will be out, not always a nice
sight. For ladies faking orgasm sort out your
mindset issue and look for caring and loving
partners.