Self awareness I totally agree in. Find it interesting these days to read other people since we could gain access to so many more people by using the Internet. So we can faster detect patterns in large groups of people than just with offline interactions!
I like what you said about truly having attention when others speak and focusing on them. This is a key area where I think have 10% more attention will truly be noticeable by the other person since you will ask a little sharper questions in return. That little extra sharpness can truly have an exponential value return effect!
So true what you said about the scientific approach. Need to do thousands of experiments to get real sharp in pattern recognition skill. That was hilarious the eye thing! 😂 Yeah we are all different so some things work better for others!
A big part for us is also to realise how much we could learn from other people that also has detected patterns so we could save time and energy by closely listen to others doing things that fascinates us. Mostly by realising how ignorant we are in terms of knowledge! If we only go by our own experience in life then it will take too long time! Books and Real humans best way to spot interesting new patterns in life!
Fail more in life is what most people need to do. Since then they will really super fast detect patterns of what works and what doesn’t. Since we are highly intelligent and on an subconscious level we pick up new patterns. We just need more input and data to be able to be sharper with our future predictions!