Hey @herms, thank you for your reply. I was amazed that you found the energy at this tough time. If I may be so intrusive as to offer up some advice ... I am sure you know this but everything goes screwy at these times. Mourn your loss and accept your pain but please celebrate his life too. It is a double-edged sword but you will be glad you recalled all the great and the good times. Look after yourself and write like mad but don't post until it is all calm within. Thoughts are with you mate.