Struggling to let go and move on after a break-up? - The QCK Files
In this recent QCK session, the client's issue was an experience of not being able to let go of or get over his ex-partner and move on with his life. In the session I pinpointed and identified for him, through muscle communication, what deeper designs and programs in and of his mind were contributing to him feeling that way and what he could do to change the issue.
In a nutshell, the session showed how his difficulty letting go of a relationship with another person was in fact about his relationship with himself. Throughout his life he had developed a personality of internal conflict. On a sub- and unconscious level of his mind he existed as an "authoritarian" personality he'd copied from his father, but on a more conscious mind level he had created and developed a more "humble" personality as a reaction to the one he'd seen in and copied from his father.
With these two opposing traits of this personality existing on different levels of himself, there was an almost constant internal conflict going on as he would, through the eyes of the humble personality, judge the authoritarian personality for it's 'egoistical', 'draconian' and 'oppressive' expression. This eventually created an experience of depression in him as he was trapping himself within experiences of guilt and remorse. In fact a big part of why he was having trouble letting go of his ex-partner was because on a subconscious level he was trying to atone and receive forgiveness for the guilt he was experiencing.
What was becoming clear through all this information testing out, was that the real issue for him to work with was his tendency to judge parts of himself and go into experiences of guilt and remorse, which is what would then motivate him to seek comfort, love and forgiveness within a relationship with another person.
After we pinpointed and mapped out the real issue, we then looked at solutions he could apply in his life to change this tendency and to thus build on his relationship with himself so that he could start giving himself those things he had been looking for in relationships with others.
Thanks for reading.
Kim Amourette
Quantum Change Kinesiologist
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I do love listening to your intelligent musings Kim - there is such a lack of that on Steemit! I just wish your videos were a little longer ... say 3-4 minutes long like my Daily Doses ... like me you have so much knowledge to impart to the community :) [Just a tip!] :)
Thanks for the tip mindhunter, I will definitely look at that point. I used to do lengthy videos but felt like they tended to lose the viewer's interest because they were long but also because QCK is new so it can be a bit too much information to process in one go. I do agree with you though that sometimes my video's are just a bit too short to really go into things. Grateful for your feedback ;
People on here are more clever than you might think - many are very aware of your subject matter. This is a global audience too, so if it is new to them, they want to devour more of it like a wild thang! Now you know where my Steemit username comes from :) Steem on Kim!