RE: Age is not just a Number for Women
Wow... First I'd like to sing this song, if you ask me... An who I go ask? Well I would not lie to you ooo, the age thing is serious issue. The thing is most women believe older men would give them the kind of understanding they need and the wisdom as well.
There is nothing terrible in a relationship as dating or married to someone who is lesser than you as a woman, first at some point he will begin to feel threatened which is a natural phenomenon. Trust me when he starts to feel that way he become insecure and from insecurity comes all sort of mishandling which might end up breaking them eventually.
Well I agree not all younger men are immature but 82% of them are. Although most people want to grow together and all of that but trust me women feel they deserve love from an older partner because with them they feel more secure and protected.
I love this topic dear.
82% line is an arm chair research. A lady wants to feel more secured and protected. Hmmmm . . . just like how Baba Buhari dey secure and protect Aisha in 'da oza room'. Age na big and serious business especially for women.
Been here, done that. She's 4 years older than I am, but she doesn't look it. And I looked older than my age(at least before I stopped the rapid growth). I was so cool with her and she's homely either; a perfect gift to mama. But the natural phenomenon rear its ugly head in my spirit and I started seeing the age and not the love as a big "ish". Trust me, what you said is aptly right. It's so instinctual for men.