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RE: 4 types of women you should NEVER date; A MUST READ FOR ALL!!!
I couldn't agree less with this article, it's very judgmental and narrow minded, in my opinion. Based on this article, my husband should divorce me, yet we have been happily married for 16 years and still going strong. When it comes to dating and relationships there are many, many nuances and articles like this are very damaging.
Am happy you lodged in your opinion. What exactly do you disagree with in the article?
I agree with the first point: loyalty.
On the second point: this would mean that women who are depressed, women who are going through a rough patch, women who are at a low point in their lives, are not worthy of love and are not capable of loving someone or being good to someone. That's a very limited point of view which is extremely exclusive and damaging to a large population of women.
Growth oriented. You define that as someone who reads a lot of non fiction. That is utter nonsense and I hope you know that. I don't read any non fiction books beyond what I read for work yet I am a very well rounded individual who definitely grows every day. I know people who know all about the latest TV shows who are far more broad minded and developed than the people who only read non fiction. Again, this is very judgemental and prejudiced and looks past the fact that people are complex.
Physical activity: I am not really sure why you advise against marrying a woman who doesn't exercise regularly. Are people who don't exercise regularly less loveable than people who hit the gym a few times a week? And what if you marry someone who exercises regularly and then they get too busy after you marry? Should you take divorce them then? Run away from them, as you say?
As I said originally, people come in all sizes and shapes and no one is less deserving of love than another, unless they are purely evil or something. Articles like this just perpetuate the damaging norms that society places on women by putting women in very confined, prescribed boxes and I would have hoped that we were past that in 2017.
Wow. It's well noted. Thanks for pointing out. Never intended sounding judgemental in any way, nevertheless, those just merely signal a dead end.
Help your spouse get better; where that is impossible, be careful.
Moreso, exercise as highlighted does not necessarily mean having a gym schedule.
See this too and give me your take on it?
https://steemit.com/relationshipfriday/@prettyrose/the-woman-s-perspective-the-axiomatic-truth-the-one