RE: Miss. Opinionated : Technology Ruins Romance.
It seems to vary in severity depending who and what they've experienced. Of course, these examples are just a few of the many situations which many of us face today.
Smartphones have given us the ability to connect with people on a level never seen before. And yet, it seems that this 'power' can be wielded negatively as all too often we see people consumed by their phones in the presence of their friends, family and loved ones. How many times do you see people eating dinner together, and instead of talking to each other, they are messaging their friends not present at the table?
My inspiration actually comes from the fact that I often feel torn between the two factions. Because of my age, I was brought up at the cusp of these technologies taking hold on the masses. The hopeless romantic in me tells me I prefer the old-fashion traditional ways of meeting people, and yet the world around me has changed it's perspective on that.
[-]solarguy 64 · in 3 minutes
U r such a sweetheart.
Do you know/remember the first thing i ever said to you was?
Anyways..
Yea. I do miss those 'good ol days' but at the same time I do like things now. It's suitable for 36yo like me now. I hope the next generation will have it better than I do now. lol
I believe there will be no turning back to the "good old days", but people can create the life they want in the future with bitcoin, steem or what have we not...
In the end woman are woman and men are men...
No we can never go back. As I write this I'm listening to fallen greats, and that sucks. I also believe we create our own destinies, that aside, we are succumbed to our modern times and admit we can't give our kids the same happiness, our parents feel the same.
What do they say "go with the flow" or the ""flow will take you"
"The hopeless romantic in me tells me I prefer the old-fashion traditional ways of meeting people, and yet the world around me has changed it's perspective on that."
This is the essence of the topic. In the end I think people can still be courageous, both men and woman, boys and girls. Its about doing something outstanding with the person that you like. Then maybe love will happen. That's at-least my experience.
To be courageous is often "expensive" in some form and therefore it is rare. It is also dangerous, as there are no guarantee for "love success", both for the courageous woman and the courageous man.
There is actually still hope for old school romance since its special again to call. In a time where everybody is hooking up on tinder and co, the nobleman approaches a girl the traditional way and scores far better than those with a "hi, how are you?" msg online. Nothing is as boring as a dinner date. The best dates are still adventure dates out in the city/nature where you can learn far more about each other through real live interaction.