#4 Relationship Advice for Men - Candace Brindley

Finding Lasting Love

Let’s assume you’re a man who’s worked hard to become THE MAN your dream girl will want, and you’re READY … but how will you find her?

Your future happiness is at stake here! What should you do?

Please use Internet dating as a LAST resort. While I like it for fun and developing dating expertise, it’s too tedious, misleading, and superficial to be used for finding your life partner.

We all know people who have found love on dating sites. And you might too. But the sheer number of people you have to vet can lead you to settling for the wrong one out of complete exhaustion. It’s also ridiculously easy to be seduced by skin-deep attributes that won’t matter at all long-term. As important as chemistry is, her beautiful smile can also distract you from discovering who she is at heart.

While I encourage you to use every opportunity to meet new people, I’d like to suggest two methods of finding love that are much more reliable:

1. Asking friends to introduce you. These people know you and they know her. This is worth your time.

2. Frequenting places where you’ll find people with your values, interests, and passions. Think religious venues, kayaking, dog parks, book groups, political rallies, or museums. You get the idea. People who share the same values have a natural affinity and respect for each other, the most abiding feature of lasting love.

As a certified Relationship Coach with years of experience, I specialize in helping single, divorced, and widowed adults succeed in opening their hearts to love and finding their ideal partners. Check out her site candacebrindley.com.