What if we weren't afraid?

What if you were to love someone but not want to commit. What if this person is the right half for you, but you just want some freedom, and what if this person finds someone else, who is not worth it. Someone less than who you can be for that person. What would you feel?

Why are we so afraid of the beautiful things? Why are we so afraid to inflict the pain that we naturally radiate?
I mean we can be all this and that but still be more than just our definition of who we are when we are with that person that we love, with that person with the other half of our soul.

Then you ask, “What if we weren’t meant to be? What if we get hurt as our souls and stories clash?”

Well, pain comes, but when you feel that this pain or similar circumstances can lead the both of you into a stronger relationship and understanding of one another, then why be afraid?

Most of the great things in life may that be a relationship with the right one will feel like a very responsibility-laden thing, and this things are most likely very binary. It’s a yes or no thing. It’s either happening or not happening. It’s either going to be something that you’d regret or something that you would treasure your whole life.

I know that a time will come when we’ll grow beyond this fear and start appreciating and jumping into these beautiful binary opportunities that could change our lives, but until then, how much are we missing? How many souls and stories are we letting go?

• a short message from @samnathis