@msgivings

-1. Women are less affected because of simple demand and supply. A woman who is a 5/10 will still have men chasing her. A man who is a 5/10 probably never had a girlfriend. Women simply have more leverage than men. Men spread their seed. They don't have to care about the offspring. Women have to choose the right man because they are stuck with the baby for 9 months. This simple biological blueprint creates the phenomenon you are puzzled with.

-2. Patriarchy is an empty word. Patriarchy exists as much as matriarchy. Male roles are shaped by female roles. Men behave a certain way because women want them to behave this way. This also applies the other way. Nature is shaped as such and it doesn't care about equality, menstruation, emotions or anything else. It only cares about the procreation of the species. In other species some females eat the male. Some other chop their dick off. This is how ecosystems with different species work. The species exist because of evolutionary adaptations. We are not any special from the rest of animals. We just have our own mechanisms.

-3. There is no "learn to be you". Every single society has stereotypes. If men and women were the same, there wouldn't be any sexual attraction and our species would perish. In 100 years the brain might be the new sexy. Today is titties and ass. 300 years ago was lard because it ensured a healthy offspring. These things are random. They are shaped by the environment.

When I hear about all this whining about "society's fault" and excuses like "patriarchy" " the goverment" "aliens" , anything but the person being in the center of the issue, I immediately can tell that the main issue is that the person is irresponsible, spoiled (often both) and the main cause of the problem.

"Learn to be you". Really? As if you could be anyone else... You are the composite of the people around you. There is no "you" .

btw. Thank you once again for inspiring me for my next article. Enjoy the video. If you haven't read the book do so. It's a good one.