Relationship killer

I am here just to give a general insight of how I see relationships between men and women.  As a guy,I have had my ups and downs with relationships, and although I am not a love doc, or a psychologist, I must say, I have never been able to figure out things in relationships.

I also think that we men, contribute significantly to what transpires in the long run, maybe some give up and stop caring or sometimes we are just slops who need fixing.  But, Imagine that you are a gentleman or a lady and a very faithful one, and here comes the most beautiful girl or man you have ever laid your eyes on. But sooner or later all the good things she or he started doing to you, and for each other becomes the thing of the past.  Suddenly, you start thinking something is not right. I bet this happens to each and everyone out there, no more cooking, washing your clothes, or intimate things.  Now on that point, you have a choice to continue being miserable or keep it cool.

Some people are overly jealous, or they think that every time you are home alone, you must be cheating on her with porn, some think that you are chatting with someone even when you are just reading news. They go through your phone every time they get a chance. They watch over you like a hawk, even when you are sleeping.

If these things happens to you, your relationship is usually in a dying mode, you need to reboot and do it fast. Do not despair my friends, some women or men come to your life and completely changes you, I mean, you feel like you are in seventh heaven. Instead her getting in the box , you end up in the box and she runs with the key.  She or he treats you the way you have never been treated before.  However, when things do not go the way they did you he or she start have second thoughts, she or he start coming home later or disappears for a day or two.  Those are scary times my friends, as soon as she or he decides to exit the relationship and you meet someone else it never feels the same.

Some people have families but, it happens that one of them can never love again because he or her heart was taken by someone else. If at any point this has happen to anyone, I think you are not living a life you are just accepting that you never want be alone and anyone who can facilitate your old age will do.

These are the things which I call relationship killer, although they are may more. Different people experience different things.

Examine yourselves before you commit.