Endless Search For My Perfect Soulmate*

Endless Search For My Perfect Soulmate

If you keep searching for the perfect man or woman, you’ll do so forever. Be more determined to attach yourself to someone who is willing to grow and learn; one who is willing to perfect (keep working on) their imperfections with God’s help; one you can help become a better person.

Don’t lower your standards for any reason but always remember that while we all should work on ourselves to be the best version possible, there will always be areas that require touching up often and that’s okay. As you search for, or wait for such an individual, ensure you are also a willing learner, not someone stuck in your ways.

Don’t be a liability, one who constantly needs to be appeased in order to be on your good side. Be willing to compromise. Any marriage that will work, takes two people working with, not against each other. Marriage is a learning and growing institution. If you’re not becoming better with each passing day, something is wrong somewhere. Be willing to apply principles that will bring out the best in your relationship and ultimately, your home.

If you aren't planning to marry in the next four years, then why are you in courtship now?
Long courtship may have some benefits but a lot of such end up loosing their sexual purity and get jilted.
After countless sex and years wasted the courtship don't lead to marriage.
Believe me when I say so.
You are just 20 entering into the university, and not ready for marriage until you are 25, yet you are already engaged?
I hope I'm wrong, by the time you are ready for marriage one of you would have changed his or her mind. Furthermore your sexual purity would have been lost a long time ago.