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RE: Miss. Opinionated : Mind over matter.
About pants wearing. What I have seen is that women do not really like to wear the pants in the relationship. However, because of the inbuilt insecurity in women, she will constantly test the strength of her man. Always, always, always.
Most men think of tests of strength being in the area of moving heavy objects, but what a woman tests is how well you handle social strengths. So, most men do not even understand that there is a test. Most men are of the mind to do whatever is needed to make her happy. However, making her happy during one of these test will make her sad with the relationship.
I am very bad at shit tests, like, "Honey, does this dress make me look fat?" To which I am inclined to answer, "Yes, I asked you to allow me to take in the waist so it sits properly on your hips and doesn't balloon out in the front." Which does nothing for her desire for attention, nor her test of worth.
Very primal, but of course we know strength can be in a multitude of attributes, with physical being just one contributor. Isn't it funny how sometimes the things we think are best, are often not. As if the laws of nature require us to think opposite to how we feel all the time.
For instance, we always want what we don't have, we always think making someone short term happy = long term happy. A true test of life for everybody.