You have really put great effort here, well done. If a man helps his wife to carry her bag, i love it. If my husband does it to me I will appreciate him. However, i will also study the environment. If it happens in America or any exposed city , no one cares but if the environment is a local one, filled with jobless individuals, who do nothing but gossip, i wont want to be a topic for their discussion. In that case, i will love my guy to curtail it.

For the Gist of today,
It is a very dicy situation. She may marry the man, and the kids will take her as their mum and peace and unity will return to the home. On the otherhand, she may marry the man, the kids may never be pleased with whatever she does. They may accuse her of taking all their dad's attention. If she is unfortunate not to have kids early enough, the man may maginalize her and stick with his kids. She may be miserable in that house. Besides the man is even a muslim. They shouldnt be unevenly yoked. Marrying a man with kids has lots of problems. Its better to marry a woman with kids instead