Just be yourself

There are many reasons why a man should not, in any circumstances, ask advice from a woman about how to behave in order to please women. The main reason is that due to the dichotomy of female thinking, there is a huge chasm between what she says men like her (ie, caring, kind, fulfilling all her desires, etc.) and what men to her like in fact (ie, aggressive, dominant, high-ranking, little paying attention to what the woman says, etc.). If a man does ask advice from a woman, then, as a rule, he will receive a standard answer: "Just be yourself." Why is that?

When a woman has to deal with a man, then all her communication follows a fundamental imperative, whose roots rest in the biological instincts of a woman - first of all a woman needs to determine whether this particular man is alpha. Functioning in any social group for a woman consists in figuring out who in this social group of men is the most highly ranked (ie, alpha). Again - the above described has nothing to do with what the woman says at the same time.
Thus, if a man "just be yourself" with a woman, it will greatly facilitate the task of finding out if he is alpha or not.

To assess the absurdity of the advice "just be yourself" for a man, let's imagine that men will advise women: "Just be by yourself - that is, do not use makeup, do not do hair, do not dress so that it's beneficial to emphasize the strengths your figure and hide what you need to hide, ... "After all, for a man in communicating with a woman, the main thing is to find out whether she is beautiful or young, and all the tricks of a woman (cosmetics, hair, clothes, ...) are aimed at , to complicate for men the solution of this problem. Imagine if women "were themselves" - that is, presented to men in the same form in which they can be seen in the morning just awakened after a fun party the night before: without makeup, hair and stylish clothes, with an unpleasant smell from the mouth, and so on. So that.