"The reality behind getting late married in Bangladesh"

shadonchandra (63)in #reality • 6 years ago (edited)

Hi Dear All steemians,

Here i'm for sharing another Reality of our society, I don't know how many people are thinking about this problem, But i hardly believe that if we able make some solution for this issue it will be really good for our present life and will best for our spiritual life.

Why i'm calling getting Married lately is a problem:

In islam getting married in time Mandatory, there have direction for every parents to married off their children in time. Other wise, They must be shared divisions of sexually transmitted sins. Getting married lately is great problem for any society, community and it's a thread for existing of human being. Because human being are loosing their re-productivity power if they are getting married lately. if the youth loose their power of reproduction, the existence of human being on thread. This is the major problem.

2nd Problem is that, Getting married lately, completed any youth doing those kind work, which are not permitted to do in any religion. Such as making affairs before marriage, which we used to called as love. 3rd is "Rape" is the most worst thing are done by human being, All the time we make responsible for raping various cause but i think raping is also result of getting married lately.

4th is, Prostitution, Prostitution is result of not getting married in time, youth are use go to for it for their metal and physical satisfaction.

Most important and viral issue is that, being re-responsible in life, because util a boy or girls become sincere about their responsibility they get married.

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The Reality for getting married in time

In the case of South Asian country a boy become matured at the age between 20-24 years, are girls are become matured at the age between 18 to 20. So in Bangladesh, Bangladesh Government select a age parameter for getting married, 22 for the boys and 20 For the girls. But with the condition of our country this parameter is really not applicable, sometimes it applicable for only girls but not for the boys. In our country every parents have a very wrong concepts on get married off their children. Until they become established, they are not thinking about their marriage off. So why youth are getting a chance for doing affairs before married because they unable to control their emotion. So that it's become a tradition, if you noticed one thing in every where of Bangladesh it's become a very problem. Not at the time of youth, boys and girls are doing affairs at the time of their school life that's mean in the time of teen age. It's really a thread for our society. Now a days i quite impossible to control any boys and girls. If their is perfect system, we never face this kind of problem. Now it's really quite impossible to make solution of this kind of problem.

Our system is also very responsible for this problem, in our country, in our education system, it takes more than 19 years to complete post graduation, it's really huge time, after completing post graduation it also taking more than 4 years to established or making a perfect career for any one. So it's quite impossible to getting married before the age 30, 8 years after being youth. It's really long time for any youth.

If you have glance on any matrimony website it will very clear for you that what is the average age of getting married in our country. We have to change our mentality, we have to follow our religious guideline and our education system must have change, otherwise this problem will increase day by day.