RE: Psychology Addict # 59 | Discussing Modern Caregiving.
Hi Ms. Abi, how are you doing? hope you're having a lovely Sunday..
i was just imagining you and my daughter Alex sitting in a room and having good and fun time with each other as well ,same with Adrian. I would be more than happy to see Alex with you.. well behaved and listening hehe. My reactions while reading this were like , oh? yeah this one's right! , i will definitely try this one.. oh yeah that is why... hmmm. I have always been learning from you Miss Abi , on the approaches.. i agree that to compliment kids are really good , but i also realized and rewind my memories if i am more of giving compliment or attention ? to my kids.. and in the end i totally agree with you when my kids got my attention , i don't see them in bad mood , crashing things or anything unwanted for me.. and with the NO! yes! it's necessary to say no to my kids too , and i even told Alex's teacher that it is okay for her to discipline Alex ( but oh no! the problem is.. up until now , i am still inside the classroom with Alex plus Freia ( my youngest) with us as well , so we're always 3 learning from day care center 😅😥
Hello dear @zephalexia :)
It's always so wonderful to hear from you. I would love to talk, play and do some other activities with Alex :D (I thought she would be a little calmer by now!). I am very pleased this post has helped you to reflect a little about your "dose" of praise vs. attention towards the minis <3 It sounds to me you are a very attentive and thoughtful towards the minis.
Lots of love to you and all the family :* :)