I will forever view the sitar as an emotionally unstable instrument now.

I think we should all strive to be accordions, but there must be a lot of headache cause don’t by someone not being able to recognize where they are at and what they need. The attraction to a sitar might be due to the ability to grow together. An accordion seems like they have all their shit together and so it feels like they don’t really need you. It also puts one person into a kind of “teacher” role while the other is like a “student”. This works for some but once you start off on these unequal roles they can be difficult to change.

In any case, this was an interesting way of lookin at relationships.