Well, I have many friends who are not so fortunate who have shared with me their experiences and I have witnessed myself the same. I discussed at length with a friend of mine who believed a great deal of his misfortune was self-fulfilling. When he changed his mindset he was able to have some more positive interactions as he took control of the only thing he could, his mindset and approach. Systemically this is a massive issue. But, individually there are some things we can do to help!