Tips for self-development

life-hack (18)in #psychology • 7 years ago (edited)

Being smart is cool
Someday you'll probably want to pretend to be stupid. Listen carefully: you should never do this. Never belittle yourself, even if it seems to you that this way you will appear cooler or you can impress the guy.
In your life, surely there will come a time when your peers (and you together with them) will think that being smart is a lot of nerds. But this period will be short-lived, believe me, and very soon these same people will drool with envy, watching your success.

Do not lose your "I" in a relationship with a young man
The goal of any relationship is to find someone who can love you for who you are, and you, in turn, must accept and love him as he really is. If you do not like windsurfing or watching horror movies, then do not do it just because it's like your boyfriend. If you like the genre of music that the young man does not like, then do not change your tastes, even if you want to please him.
There are a lot of guys in the world who can love you for who you are, and admire your every act. Wait for such a person.
Speak
I do not mean that you have to complain or brag about, but if you have an opinion on any issue or you see that something is going wrong, then it's your duty to tell about it. You can irritate some people with your statements, but impress others. Remember that in any case, everything is as it should be. Learn to defend your point of view under any circumstances.
You have power over the guys.
One day you realize it: it's because of you that he blushes very often, stammers in mid-sentence and just worries. A wonderful feeling, however, to realize how strong are your female spells? But remember that great power brings with it a great responsibility. Try to be gentle and caring, do not let yourself be cruel. After all, guys can be just as vulnerable as girls.
Sometimes you will hate me, but I will always love you
I hope you will never tell me this in person, but I know that there will be situations when you will think that you can not stand the breath. Many daughters believe that their mothers do not understand anything, they will condemn them for this and that or that or just feel embarrassed to discuss with their mothers many questions.

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