Yes, it is a shit test: Some feminist will actually admit this to you and give you way more respect:) But most western men play it safe around woman, as they where breakable... Women are dirty dirty creatures underneath the neat facade:) You cannot blame them though, just nature at work. For women the world is a fierce place with constant dangers of violence (sexual) and no wonder they are genetically attracted to strong men and not men that get their country become evaded by intruders.